其实一味的忍让,真的解决不了什么问题,反而只会让别人得寸进尺。
In fact, blind tolerance will really not solve any problems, but will only allow others to gain a foothold.
结局,和你想得不一样的叫生活,和你想得一样的叫童话。
The ending is different from what you think is called life, and what you think is called fairy tale.
后来,山盟海誓再也感动不了我,你不认真,我便不当真。
Later, the Shanmeng Oath could never touch me again. If you are not serious, I will not be true.
有些事、藏在心里是莫大的委屈。话到嘴边、又觉得无足挂齿不值一提。
Some things are hidden in my heart. When it comes to the mouth, it feels worth mentioning.
如果你认为我很好骗,没关系,那请你继续,我看着你表演。
If you think I’m a good liar, it doesn’t matter, then please continue, I watched you perform.
有些事放开就好,看开就好,不必计较太多。心宽,就是对自己最好的礼物。
Just let go of some things, just look away, don’t worry too much. A wide heart is the best gift for yourself.
怕什么路途遥远,走一步有走一步的风景,进一步有进一步的欢喜。
I am afraid that there is a long way to go, and I have a step by step scenery, and I have further joy.
有人问我思念到极致是什么感觉,我说我曾经发了句晚安给他,一晚上醒来七次看手机信息。
Someone asked me what it felt like to miss the ultimate. I said that I once sent him a good night sentence and woke up seven times a night to read the phone message.
有时候不是不想说话,而是有很多话说不出来,放在心里会安全点。
Sometimes it’s not that I don’t want to talk, but that there are many words that I can’t say, and it will be safer in my heart.
你以为热情主动他会感动,你以为你患得患失他会心痛,其实都没有,只有你一次又一次犯贱再主动。
You think he will be moved by enthusiasm and initiative, and you think he will be heartache when you suffer.